Article on what an Affair is...

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Article on what an Affair is...

Postby newlywedwidow on Sat Feb 07, 2009 5:34 am

I read these articles this morning before I left work and thought that they were very interesting.

" If you don't understand how or why it happened and why it hurt the spouse, the probability of it happening again is very high."

This sentence stuck out to me because my hubby has had an EA and he doesn't understand why it hurt me so much (not for lack of me trying to explain it). When the spouse that has done the hurting doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand the other person's pain....there is an issue. I have noticed lately that there are a lot of people here lately that have been joining GW in the same plight that I have found myself. I just thought that this article was interesting and possibly relevant. MarriageBuilders.com is a helpful site. I am a Christian so it may be more helpful to me then it is to some of you, but if you go ahead and read the articles, there is some mention of God, but not so much that a non-believer would be offended or at least I wouldn't think so. I hope these help at least 1 person.

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic ... 1_fft.html
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5028_qa.html
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Re: Article on what an Affair is...

Postby phnxzlil1 on Sat Feb 07, 2009 1:53 pm

Newly,
I'm posting it in the blog I write...thank you for sharing!

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Re: Article on what an Affair is...

Postby newlywedwidow on Sun Feb 08, 2009 6:15 am

You're welcome!
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